*warning this is long lol* So I (21) met this 24 year old guy on Tinder back in November. My bio was "let's go on cute dates or whatever" and he messaged me saying "okay where?". That started the beginning of us dating. We went to dinner, saw movies, went salsa dancing etc for about 3 weeks before he asked me if I wanted to date exclusively and I said yes. Later on in Dec. we began to make out more and he would always comment how he thought I had a nice body and couldn't wait to have sex. One night I explained that I needed to understand a guys sexual history and have STD/HIV results before having sex. He explained that he had only had sex with one person before. The following day he went to get tested. He got the results a week later all negative but I still wasn't ready to have sex and I went on my unis winter holiday.

So he makes plans to visit *specifically asks that we stay in a hotel instead of my family home which I offered* but gets snowed in. I come back from break and we continue to go on dates and we have sex for the first time at the end of January. We go out to dinner a couple of days later and discuss our dating no nos. For me personality trumps appearances but he didn't believe me and went on to explain how he could never date a girl who was overweight or short. I told him how rude that is. But in the back of my mind I didn't get it because he himself is both of the things he can't be attracted to. Later on in the convo he said that I made it easy to approach cause of my tinder bio. I was a little offended by that but he said he didn't mean that I was "easy".

By this time he had never complimented me outside of saying I have a nice body and had never shown affection that didn't lead to sex. I told him how I felt about this and he said he would work on that and being more romantic. It seemslike he has done the opposite.

He ALWAYS jaywalks and waits for me on the other side, I've tried holding his hand but he shrugs it off, he never checks to see if I get home okay at night. His apartment has gotten so messy even tho I suggest using the dishwasher and folding clothes. He doesn't even put in effort for his appearance. I've tried motivating him and offering suggestions but it's not working.

Recently we had an accident and I had to take plan B before going on a trip to Florida, I was having cramps before I left but he never checked to see if I got to Florida okay or if my cramps had gotten worse. He texted me when I got back and asked how the trip was and I just answered very short before he asked if I was upset. I told him why and he said that he didn't think I expected him too ask and said that he hoped I dont stay mad for too long and don't think he doesn't care. I just let it all out and told him how I felt about everything and that we need to talk.

Does he even like me or care about me? Am I justified in wanting to end things?