So 2 Christmas ago.. my SO & I decided we weren't going to do gifts for each other (we just got married and bought a house that year) also we have 8 nieces/nephews - long story short huge families. I've never dressed up for him before and i felt maybe I'll do something he wasn't expecting. I have a hard time finding a corset that would fit okay, I have a heavier chest and weird shape body.. (muffin top) , so it's very challenging when it comes to lingerie, especially corset. Anyways I ordered one online and was a little tighter. We came home from Christmas dinner and I went into the bathroom to change for him. It took me almost 20 minutes to put it on, tie it properly, fix up my make up, re-teased my hair. I came out bad he was dead asleep. It was only 830pm! So I just laid next to him, he woke up an hour later and felt the corset.. he just said "ouuuu, what is this? Smiling" at this point I was just so turned off. And went to sleep. Since then.. It's been 2 years and I haven't had the courage to put a corset on. Is it wrong for me to probably never wear one again? Am I over reacting? I try to keep spicing up our sex life.. but I just can't seem to put on another corset without feeling so embarrassed, unwanted, ugly... just a weird feeling.. every time I asked him what I can do to turn him on.. he keeps saying lingerie and corsets.. I know I should get over it and try again... but I just stare at it in my dresser.. ugh.. help...