TMI?!? probably not lol

OK so this might be a very odd and random question, for all my ladies TTC, for the longest time my husband and I used the pull out method which was fine. It's been a couple months and I'm trying to figure out some tips or tricks. I've heard the old wise tale of holding your legs up for a little bit.... or not automatically going to the bathroom right away etc. my question is sometimes a wait and I'll get dressed and I'll have this very large lump ejaculation that comes out. Is that bad or is that completely normal?