I feel bad

I feel bad for thinking this way but i get frustrated when a girl on here says "im spotting brown/red/pink" and someone says "its fine as long as your not cramping".... Yes there are a ton of women who bleed during pregnancy and its fine. But then with both my mc's I've had brown blood. I feel all bleeding should be checked out by a dr. I feel women are misinformed about mc's and think if its not red blood with severe cramping your fine. Please just always get checked!