is this weird?

Well I got fingered for the first time about 2 days ago, and now my pee is different and my vagina hurts more now! Is this normal? Also when does it get enjoyable? I'm 16 and I just can't stop resisting to him because it just hurts, and it's awkward. Like we're both virgins and it's never happened to any of us before but I just have no idea about like what to do when he's fingering me or like how to enjoy it or how to orgasim. Help me plz someone!!