why won't he go down on me?

Question

When my boyfriend and I started having sex and getting comfortable with each other, he tried giving me head. He explained to me that he had never given head to any of his previous girlfriends and that I was the first.  He then later explained to me he didn't like the "taste" and asked me if I minded if he got flavored oral sex gel. I told him that I was okay with that and I was even willing to use it on him. We never got it. He tried giving me head since we discussed the flavored oral sex gel but it lasted 5 seconds because of the "taste" again. I told him if he didn't feel comfortable it was okay and he said okay. It has been a few weeks since he tried but he always asks me to go down on him. I have good hygiene, I take care of myself so I'm not sure why he's not enjoying it. I have never experienced that with previous boyfriends. They loved going down on me. If anyone has suggestions on what I should do to help him enjoy going down on me as much as I enjoy going down on him, please feel free to comment.

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I'd buy the lube, pull it out and ask him to use it.
But, at the same time, knowing someone isn't "into it"  can really destroy the mood...
You shouldn't even have to ask in the first place. 
Further, he shouldn't be getting any blow jobs if he isn't returning the favor. 
Maybe he's just not sure how to do it "right?" He needs to know thats 
ok too... but he's gotta learn!

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Im my bfs first. He has never had sex before. When he started having sex he asked me to 69 cause he never did it before. Well i told him he should try to go down on me first b4 we do that. He did it for 5 seconds and decided he was done. Found out he was uncomfortable with it but he kept telling me give him time he will get comfortable. Its been almost 2 years and he still isnt comfortable. He doesnt like the wetness or the taste. Yes i clean myself and i dont smell or anything but he doesnt like it. I wont make him do it to me. I realized he won't change his mind and if he does end up doing it its only to please me and not because he enjoys it and i dont want him to do that.

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I wouldn't be giving him head

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If he never ate out a girl before maybe he just doesn't know what to expect. Kinda like the first few times I made out with a boy I was grossed out but then I realized that's what it's like. Sorry girl :(

why won't he go down on me?

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