I don't want to be the bread winner, any others like this

To each their own but this is how I want my relationship. My fiance is a psychologist and makes around 80k. I am a respiratory therapist making 60k. Some girls discriminate by height. Well my guy is 2 inches shorter, and I am fine with that. I mean he can't help his height. I don't consider him any less of a man. However, I can't deal with being the bread winner. I am,old fashioned....in my relationship the guy needs to be the bread winner. I get so turned off by a guy that makes less than me. I get turned on my successful men. I have told my fiance this, and he thinks it's perfectly normal. I am wondering if there are women like me out there???