Because I've been seeing too many shaming SMALL girls

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Lately, I've seen tons of posts, about shaming small girls. Posts like :" I'm so tired of seeing 100 lbs girls posting their before and after"

Regardless of what u MEANT to say, that's shaming a woman because of her weight. If u are like myself, and CAN'T gain one frikin lb, no matter what u do, u are shaming us. It's just as bad as being overweight and not being able to loose weight. Just cause one is more common than the other, it doesn't give u the right to judge and shame. If I make a post and say "I'm tired of seeing 250 lbs women on here that try to lose weight" I would be bitched at to no end. So, it works both ways.

I'm 5 foot and I was 89 lbs when I found out I was pregnant. Not anorexic not bulimic just petite and tiny. All my life I've tried to gain weight. From squats to 6000 calories a day diet. From eating healthy and lean, to eating mc donalds 4 times a day for a year. From shakes to powders . Nothing ever worked. I've never LOtKED 89 lbs, but I've never been above 100 lbs with the exception of being pregnant. I was 116 lbs at delivery day at 41 weeks. My daughter was born at 41 weeks via natural vaginal delivery 7 lbs 1 ounce and 19 inches long. Guess what. .. I went back to 89 lbs within 4 weeks. It SUCKS! Everyone kept saying I will finally keep some weight on. Not for me!!! Nope, my ass is cursed to look like a 16 year old all my life. Yes it a curse. No, u cannot shame othwrs like me, because YOU think being overweight is worse.

The ONLY good thing about it is the that I have zero strech marks anywhere and that my skin went back to the way it was. I AM greatful for that. I KNOW I'm lucky, but damn. Stop shaming others on here for posting their before pic while pregnant and after. Just cause we are tiny, doesn't mean we can't share OUR story.

I've NEVER posted an after pic BECAUSE I see how others on here get bitched and hated for it. Well, today I no longer care. Here's my 41 weeks pregnant shot and my 4 weeks pp shot.

Excuse my mirror in the 4 weeks pp shot, I literally had a sneezing attack minutes before snapping the pic.

Ps-I'm 32 years old.