Im beyond stressed out... My mother went crazy inviting her friends, so did NY sister along with my guest list we now have 150 guest that have confirmed they're coming.

Mom's bitching because it's too many people at the house. So decide to do 2 showers one she's hosting with her friend and my sister's and I'm taking care of the second one. I'm doing BBQ at my cousin house, 99% of the food I'm cooking. A few games, music and friends relaxing. I've managed to scrounge up two helpers for that day. (60 guest)

I was originally going to cater the food but mom has like 80 people still complaining about the number of people at the house. So we're trying to book somewhere and most places want you to use their catering service and with that many guest it's about $700!!! We can buy whatever we need with that money and she's calling and driving me insane. I've given her $200 already to help and she wants another $200 from me...

I've got enough stress and im at the point I just want to cancel everything both showers and say fuck it.

Am I wrong?