Pre E?

So even though my blood pressure is high I have a pounding headache and pretty sudden swelling in my hands, plus weight gain... like a lot of weight gain, I've gained 10 lbs since Monday! Up until this point I had gained 20lbs My doctor still doesn't want to have me come in to get checked for pre eclampsia. I'm worried but I think I should also try to trust my doctor.. What would you ladies do?