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Never had an orgasm.. never feel like having sex

Hi girls,

I'm 30 and I'm in a very happy and healthy relationship. My partner is amazing, we love each other and I enjoy spending time with him. I had some pretty bad experiences before this relationship.. I was victim of sexual abuse in 2012 and last year my previous boyfriend cheated on me saying that I was boring in bed.

Right now I'm super happy and I really feel like I've found the one. I love him but I don't feel like having sex and even when it happens I can't wait to get it done. I don't know what to do, I wish I could enjoy it and make him happy. Any advice? I'd like to go to a therapist but here in london it's very expensive.

Thanks

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