I just experienced my second miscarriage this month. I'll explain it's a little complicated but I had to this month I had vanishing twin syndrome so I was pregnant with twins miscarried earlier this month with one then miscarried with the second one couple days ago: so want to my partner, we have been fighting before he found out we are pregnant so we weren't speaking the day that I found out but once I told him he came to me and everything changed and he seemed really excited then I miscarried he was still really supportive end it seem like all of our issues kind of went away for the moment. Then we found out I was still pregnant due to vanishing twin syndrome he started looking at houses naming the baby and getting really excited to the point of looking at Cribbs in all that kind of stuff and I was only about 10 weeks along. Then I miscarried that baby to 💔. Now he is been distant not so much like not talking to me and like he's upset but really just not really want to have anything to do with me as far as spending time together he'll talk to me and joke around but he won't want to spend time with me he played video games all day long today and then just left to go have some beers. He doesn't seem upset he was upset on the day that it happened but it was like he got all his sadness out and now he's completely fine joking around with his friends and playing video games and acting like life is normal. I understand that people process lost in a different way maybe that's his way of it and it has nothing to do with me other than maybe he just needed some space but I'm worried that we're going back to him not wanting to be with me and everything and looking at houses in buying houses while we thought we were pregnant is nonexistent and he only did that to be a good man and step up to the plate. I'm just really looking for some encouragement in guidance on what to do and how to process and understand this because not only losing two babies in one month is like ripping my heart out but losing my boyfriend along with that makes me feel like I'm losing everything at once.