I NEED TO RANT

Why is when your pregnant NO ONE FUCKING MAKES AN EFFORT, but you know full damn well when the baby is that's when they realise that you haven't disappeared also? Over the past couple of days I have stopped texting or ringing people to see if I still had the same relationship with them & NOPE. I have not had one phone call or text off fucking anyone! In a way it's made me angry but I'm actually quite upset. I have felt alone during my whole pregnancy and I do feel like when he is born, that's when everyone will bother and I don't want that?? Is that being ungrateful?