My personal responses -- 1 from my grandma- I'd be happy for you if you were older and more prepared ( I'm 19.  And no I don't have life completely figured out  , but you know what , when god says it's time , it's time..) 2.From my cousin in law- maybe now you'll get a butt and no more mosquito bites. ( I'm 5'2 and weigh 102lbs .. no I'm not going to be big anywhere ! I'm tiny like damn .. just starting to feel confident  then that just slammed a door in my face..)  3. Supposed to be best friend-  ( when I had my miscarriage.. I didn't get a sorry for your loss comment , instead I got . Well atleast it's better this way because you don't have a degree yet and you can now do that... honey kid or no kid I can do anything I put my mind too... yes it makes things harder but if I had a kid I wouldn't change a damn thing!) ...