what do contractions feel like? where do they start?

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I know it's a stupid question but I can't find anything really that tells me where I should feel contractions. 
Some say it's at the top of the bump, some say in pelvis.
Sometimes my stomach tightens and the bump gets hard is that a contraction/Brixton hicks thing???? Sorry I'm just trying to see what I should be looking out for