my husband can't make our first US, should I go without him??!

Question

My husband runs his own company and it's difficult for him to make appointments in the day at short notice. Because we had ivf we are able to have an early US to reassure us the pregnancy is viable and we should hear a heartbeat at around 7weeks. Should I go without him to reassure me everything is ok or should I wait another 2 weeks for him to be able to attend with me?
It feels like an important moment for us to share together but the worry of not knowing is niggling too and another 2 weeks seems like a lifetime!? Any help pleases?

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Personally, I would not go without my husband for two reasons. If the baby is viable, I want him to share that joy. If the baby is not viable I will need his shoulder to cry on.

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go without him. he can be at other appointments

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We also did ivf. Congrats on your little one.  I suggest going by yourself.  We ended up having a ton of scans.  My husband got deployed and I ended up taking my 7 year old with me for support.

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Yes, you can, I did like this alone because my husband has pacemaker and a cancer, after you arrive in USA, you only go to a local lawyer to ask for a certificate stating that you are separate from your husband just for your urgent private medical treatment to be done only in carlifornia USA because of your husband's special circumstance like my husband's.

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I would not want the stress of waiting two more weeks to know if it's viable. I might take a very close friend or my sister or some other family member I'm close to if I wanted someone there for support.

my husband can't make our first US, should I go without him??!

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