total crap

It's so late and I feel like total crap! I had a higher blood pressure today so I went into labor and delivery, they checked it a few times and it went back to normal thank god! The doctor checked my cervix and it was completely closed I'm almost 39 weeks, I know the baby will come when he wants but I'm so uncomfortable and it's been hard to breathe cuz he's still so high! I just feel so terrible tonight! I have a list of stuff to kick start labor, any advice on how to help dilate will be greatly appreciated! I know for some nothing helps! I just want everything to go smoothly 👌🏽