Hi! I'm Ali and looking for a cycle buddy, AF May 7

Alessandra • Mommy to two boys and wife to an amazing man
Hi everyone! My name is Ali and I'm 30 and TTC #2. I have a son who will be 2 in July. 
We started TTC after my March 4 period and luckily got pregnant the first cycle, however, I'm currently going through a miscarriage that happened at 5 weeks. I believe I'm at the tail end of it, but this wait is killing me. My next AF is due May 7, hopefully. 
We're trying to decide if we want to take the drs Rec and wait for one cycle to pass, or just go for it. 
Is there anyone out there who matches my description? I'd love to find someone near me (Southern California) and with a little one similar in age to my son(play dates!!)
Thanks!!
Ali