Sometimes you just need to tell your man exactly what you want.

3 or 4 times. I've told my husband multiple times to go slower, need foreplay before foreplay, more teasing and more compliments and Bossier in bed. And it finally sunk in!! It's so much better now. I highly recommend everyone just saying exactly what you need and want. You may need to tell him multiple times... Cuz...Men lol.