I'm long-winded, so I apologize ahead of time ladies. So I have known this guy Zae since 2012. We met through an ex-friend that we'll call Morgan. Morgan had a niece that we'll call Kelly. Zae was in a long-term relationship with Kelly when we met. After a few months, Kelly was sent to live with her father in another state because she was under 18 and not attending school. (The age of consent in GA is 16.) With Kelly being sent away, Zae was left alone. Morgan allegedly asked Zae to find a boyfriend for me, in which he told her that he liked me. Shortly after we started dating, falling for each other, and exchanging I love you's. Kelly said sister caught wind of the relationship and told Kelly about it. Apparently they were not really broken up as I was led to believe. She claimed to be pregnant, then not pregnant, etc. By that time, I was through with him. Over the years, I have given him chances just for him to go back to her and then end up having a child. Just last year, I gave him a chance to find that he was on drugs. I gave him a few months to sober up and we decided to be serious with each other, and so I thought. He was supposed to had moved in with me but sometimes would not show up at nights and lied about simple things like taking out the trash, making an elaborate story. We had made plans to marry, start a business, and build with each other. I had allowed a male friend of mine to stay the night on my couch one night after he didn't show up the night before. He showed up that night to make up a claim that I was cheating. A day passed where we made plans for the next morning, and he literally walked out while we were getting dressed with no words at all. Now he's coming back to claim that he left because he thought I was cheating and wants another chance, but now I can't even have a conversation with him without him saying he wants sex. I want to talk to him about building and reparations because I honest still have love for him, but I'm over having a lot of sex. I want love. He can't seem to understand that saying that sex is a big part of a healthy relationship. I want to say forget it and block him, but I just keep talking.
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