My last pregnancy ended in a misscariage at 10 weeks 3 days after a car accident I was in that flipped the car. I am 17 weeks pregnant today and had a "threatened miscarriage" at 16 weeks 2 days (according to the ER but my midwife said it's not as serious as they made it sound) and I have been so scared to buy anything for this baby. Well I decided to buy a couple of bottles for the baby and told mom I planned on ordering a couple of clothe diapers to try them out with my daughter before I i decide on what brand to get for the baby. I was so excited i showed my brothers grandmother and she looks at me smiling "I got a question what are you going to do if something happens to the baby before you can use all that stuff" I was upset and started to crying "I guess I'll just give it away" (yea I had an attitude and no I'm not sorry for it) and she begins screaming at me "don't you dare get smart with me I was just asking a question" I say "I know I can lose the baby ok I know this but I don't have to be reminded every time I turn around" my mom walks in to the room to see what was going on. I begin to tell her and this old bitch (sorry not sorry) decided to tell her "I'm moving out I'm tired of being treated this way I'm just moving out" then proceeds to tell her "I was just asking her because I know how much it can hurt seeing reminders" (then why the fuck did she smile?!)

We know shes not going to move out because she never does anything for herself. She calls from one room to the next to see if someone could bring her something from a cabinet 6 feet away from her. She has a potty chair a foot from her bed and even tho she can walk across the house to get her tablet all by herself she cant walk a foot to the potty chair right next to her.