The first, very detailed post that I wrote was too long to be posted. So short story... I broke up with my very serious boyfriend (1 year 5 months) two days ago because he hasn't been speaking to me or seeing me since Thanksgiving and the only reason I can get out of him is that it's because I don't have a job. I've been trying to get a job for 3 years now and I'm either under or over qualified. 

We had some issues but nothing that couldn't have been worked through. Honestly, I did everything right besides have a job. I have my own home and own things. I never asked him to support me. I cooked when he came over and there was always food at my home and it was clean. I can't say the same for him because he expected me to clean and buy groceries and cook for his place when I was over there. I don't have an income so when he votes that we go out all the time, it's because he wanted to and I stayed on the cheaper side because I didn't want anything to be said in the long run. It's clear he doesn't communicate well but I broke up with him face to face and he still had nothing to say, regardless of me asking. I didn't waste my breathe neither but when I left and packed up 85% of my things because he had asked me to move in with him the previous July, he asked if I was okay and I made it clear that I was not okay but was leaving anyway before I started to cry my eyes out.

How do you get over your first true love when it ends like this?! He was my first everything. For him to speed up our future like that then just take it away for such a dumb reason is terrible. 

He bought my engagement ring and wedding band in November. Like what really brought this on?