Friends!

Stevi • Boy Mumma to 2 gorgeous little men. Pregnant with our 3rd and final, hoping for a girl but happy with healthy🥰
Hey, 
so I moved to a new state about 6 years ago. I had one good friend who said some things that really upset me and I'm finding hard to get over so I don't consider her a friend anymore? Or at the moment, I guess only time will tell if I get over it and rekindle the friendship. Anyway.
I work full time and am finding it very very difficult to make friends. 
I try to 'Facebook' if anyone wants to grab a beer or coffee or we say we will catch up and it never happens. 
I want to play netball where I think I may meet friends, but my work hours don't allow for it. Plus talking to new people in person actually exhausts me because my anxiety is constantly 'don't say that, don't stand like that, they're talking to you because they feel obliged but you're such a loser'. Haha I sound so tragic but I get so lonely and don't have that one or two friends to call to see a movie or go shopping. My best friend still lives where I moved from. I have my boyfriend and family here but it would be nice to have a female friend!!
How the hell!! Do you make friends at 23 without sounding like a loser! I have a very different personality to most girls I meet. They seem so soft and cruisy but I grew up in motorbike shops and work with men at a truck company so aren't the most girlies of girls.
Sorry for the extremely long post but in short how the hell do you make friends!!!