My mother inlaw

madalyn
I swear shes out to get me or controll. The space i need she take to a whole new level.. im so stressed out baby living and she finds crazy shit to stress me over more. Im the type to shut down stay away i got more shit goong on then her insecure stuff. Im trying i feel like its a constant war shes trying to make every month it's something else i try to involve her. Make her feel ok but im starting to think my people pleasing isnt working and this might be causing syressers between my husband and i. I dont want this drama right now i just wanna focus on my child serving the next 8 weeks we have her in. Shes destracking me with her personalizing. I wanna just have the baby in peace and a live baby. But she hasnt even thought abput all the littllle things she is yelling about. I understand but will not respond to negitive comunacation. I tell her that i love you but we need to communicate like adults about feelings and she tells we weather you like it or not we will have something incomen. Idk where the crazy comes from but ii feel like this problem solving with her or my husband about her is getting nowhere. We have allot incomen she just spends more time focusing on other people ex's kids and family i just cant be around that and should have to be around people that talk shit and dont even know me. Two different worlds and i wanna jist move 3 hours away and be ok drama free but now that she started this. My hopes of being close to my support group 3 hours away is crushed.....