How do I tell him.?

So this weekend my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time together. I am not a virgin and he seemed super inexperienced... like the actual penetration was good but he kept going down on me and wasn't even close to my clit, when he fingered me it actually hurt because he wasn't actually doing it right. Like I feel like I could teach him but I don't know how to go about it without sounding like a bitch. Because I seriously think he's just never had a girl tell him what she likes... other than that sex was good just really sore now because his fingers weren't exactly........ pleasant lol