I'm awful with words

There's this guy I've been talking to. Don't laugh. We started talking on Song Pop and have started talking on Facebook since. We have mutual interests, he's funny, easy to talk to.m, etc. he's suggested me applying for work down by him as he knows I have looked for work in TN with no success and that I'm actively looking. I'm starting to take a liking to him and his personality. I'm applying for the jobs regardless as they're in my field and the pay is excellent. However, as far as the guy I want to know where he stands as to what he's looking for in a girl. We've never really talked about that. We both have said we've been hurt in the past but never mentioned to each other what we want going forward. I have been hurt recently trying to find someone as I'm always shot down. That's why I figured I'd let this go however it will. I don't know. Maybe I shouldn't say anything. I'm sure if he liked me, he would. He's got a ton of females on his friends list which kind of makes me think "Wow, Nikki. You're not good enough." For all I know they're high school friends or coworkers. I have 144 friends and most of them are coworkers that I feel awkward deleting. I don't have much self esteem :/ what do I do here? :/