AF is 5 days late, got a BFN first day.

Cassie
My husband & I have been TTC for 8 months now. Typically AF is pretty spot on, but the last couple months it has been way off. Last month was 10 days late & this month is 5 days even past last months. I took a HPT the first day because I'm impatient and it was a BFN. Not sure what is going on. My back has been killing me the past couple days, but not crampy and my boobs has been so tender which is weird.  Any advice or thoughts? I'm not stressing about getting pregnant, just honestly want to know what's going on.