whyyyyy

So I really like this guy. And he's 100% not a fuckboy or anything like that. He told me about a month ago that he also likes me. Hes probably one of the sweetest guys ive ever seen. He's two years older, so almost 20. He said he doesnt have the time he wants to give me and he would prefer we be friends. We are going to my prom together though. Does he actually like me? Or just doesnt want me to feel stupid/like a loser?  Also he said he doesnt want to rush things because the last two girls he dated ended up being lesbians which hurt his self esteem and he thinks it was his fault