Is there anyone who got pregnant sooner than they thought; and are going through the motions? Or having a hard time picturing themselves as a mom? I am. I'm so destrought! And people don't encourage first time moms. They make it seem like my life is over and I can't have fun anymore (I don't even drink or party etc) and that my life will be miserable. It's getting to me and I'm due this week. Anyone have some truthful encouragement?