I seriously hate people while pregnant

I swear no one is going to make me feel bad for not wanting visitors till hours after my baby boy is born. I was robbed of that special bonding time with my daughter because the endless amount of visitors that would not leave. She had trouble breastfeeding because I didn't have that bonding/latch time till about 12 hours after she was born. Sick of people being selfish when it's MY birth plan and ME giving birth. Also people want me to have another csection because it benefits them?! I have a right to be selfish! & shame on anyone for making a pregnant woman feel bad for being selfish! Jeez how hard is it for people to be fucking supportive about MY decisions with MY birth! End Rant!