So my mom always was telling me how its not that serious to giveyour toddler candy or ice cream. It wont hurt them blah blah. When she was 7 months i caught my mom feeding her ice cream and cake at a party. It bothered me because i didn't introduce her to dairy and i didn't know if she would have a reaction. Its one thing to have her taste but to give her many spoon fulls (feeding it to her) bothered me. When i said something shes like relax she will be fine your just a first time mom. I did this with all of you and your all fine. Now when ever i bring my 15 mo old over she keeps feeding her candy. Also seen her give her a sip of soda which i never gave her before. I said something to her about it because i feel like its just not necessary. If you have other alternatives to give her like juice or water or eveen milk why give her soda ? If your not eating candy and she's not sitting there begging u for a bite why are you opening a bag of candy and feeding it to her ? Literally calling her over saying here and feeding her candy. So i said something about it and she just tries to belittle me saying im being over protective. Its not that. I let her taste sugary things like candy or cookies but to a certain extent. I dont feed it to her like a snack ???? How can i get my point across without her acting like shes all high and mighty and knows everything. And im just being an over protective parent. What yall think ?