SO and I rarely have sex?

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I see a lot of posts on here about women and their SO having sex at least once a day, or at least 3-4 times a week, etc.. my husband and I have been together 3.5 years, and we have sex usually once a week, if that. And we are totally content and happy with that. Honestly, we much prefer cuddling on the couch and watching movies, or going on adventures with our puppy (we just moved to a new city). We prefer just being in each other's presence and innocent touches and little kisses. But, after reading all these posts, I feel like that's not how it should be?

It's not at all about attraction; my husband is sexy as hell, and he tells me all the time how beautiful and hot I am. Sex just isn't really important to us, I guess?

I feel weird even posting this lol. But is anyone else the same with their SO? I feel like we're the odd ones out.

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It's not weird! Every couple is different. If y'all are both happy that's what matters

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My boyfriend and I have sex once a week. But this month, with him studying for his final exam and me having AF, we haven't had sex in almost a month. I find it to be normal in our case.  He knows that I'm still learning so we are taking it one step at a time with sex.

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Yes boo we watch movies on the couch and cuddle but 30 minutes into the movie my hands slip down his boxers and boom my legs are now open will his long 10 inch dick in me😭😭😭👉🏽👌🏼

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I think the reason my boyfriend and I only have sex once a week is because of our work schedules they're so out of tune and he comes home exhausted, so the only day we have sex is Friday night/Saturday morning when I'm sleeping over

I'm fine with it too :)

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My boyfriend and I go through cycles depending on stress levels and a variety of factors. Some weeks we have sex five times, sometimes we go a full week without. But don't feel like there is something off in your relationship! Every relationship is different. I personally love the intimate touches as well. I have been with my boyfriend for three years and there is nothing wrong with slipping into a comfortable intimate routine. Way more comfy! ❤

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My last relationship, we had sex all the time. Almost every day. At times it would be every day, usually twice a day, sometimes more. Some days like all day. Crazy just always sex. When i would be switching birth control we burned through condoms like crazy even when we were using pull-out method sometimes. 
Now i have sex like sometimes. Part of it is my boyfriends work schedule, as an emt sometimes he works 12 hours with not even a lunch break. So i know i live both lives. Honestly besides the occasional sexual frustration, my libido has evened out and is comfortable with not having constant sex. It was weird to me at first, esp if we would have sex like 4 times in 3 days and he would make a comment about how we were having sooo much sex like...... uh huh......(awkward silence from me) BUT i love him so much and i found that i dont need a high sex life to be happy and i love my man more than i ever felt about my ex. He makes me a lot happier and im happy just sleeping by his side. Im way less stressed about losing sleep too. My bf goes out like a light haha
Like ive done it, it was fun, but i dont need that life. Would be awesome if we had more sex? Hell yeah, of course sex feels good, why not. But im not looking for anything else besides my man. (And who knows now that hes getting a new job 😉)

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We try to at least twice a week but lately with our work schedules being so different it's been once a week and I've been feeling the same way lately! A lot of posts on here say they have sex every day so I know how you are feeling! It does kind of make you feel like it's not so normal but if you are both content with it then that works for you guys! But I know it's hard not feeling this way!

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Hun my husband and I are the exact same way! We been together 10 years married 7 and there is weeks where we don't have sex at all but when we go to bed we hold each other soooo tight and don't let go, we are touchy feely throughout the day, we kiss a lot, tell each other we love you numerous times a day, very playful like idk feel like kids at times and we are perfectly content. 
I am like you I see all these posts about sex and multiple times and it's like okay is that goes it's supposed to be? But now I don't feel alone

SO and I rarely have sex?

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