There has to more to way she acts the way she does!!

Amani • First time/Soon to be mom 3-16-17🍀👶🏾
I recently just had my baby boy(my baby is his defend son and a Jr) the other child mother keeps making post and comments about why my son is named after the bad and not the first boy then she goes to say she's not comfortable letting the bad get their child because he's bad, like to fight and gets into stuff (he's only 2) so he replies back that's what kids do I've had him before and he was the same way but now your not comfortable but replies about how she done with the conversation and it's aggravating and if he wants to come see him he can come to where their at because she feels like he's avoiding coming around and that way the baby will know him better then a few days past and she says if your not busy anddo you want him you can get him idk for how long he says yes I'll get him and that's when she said  never mind some other day!!! 
-WHATS REALLY GOING ON W/ HER?
-IS THE NAME THING THATIMPORTANT??
-HOW DO YOU GO FROM NOT BEING COMFORTABLE ABOUT THE SITUCATION TO DATS LATER YOUR WANT HIM TO COME GET YOUR SON!!