intimacy has gone!! advice please ladies!
Sorry long post but stick with me!! Right so.. I'm 20 and my boyfriends 22.. I sleep at his every night and have been for about three years, we've not moved out yet! Hopefully soon.. we've been together nearly five years, he used to be unbelievably horny when we first met, probably because he was a virgin, I wasn't.. but I wasn't too into sex, sort of felt embarrassed at the time, now we've been together so long nothing is embarrassing and I absolutely love sex with him! Sometimes because I'm just horny and want sex, other times because I just love the feeling of 'making love' I suppose, sex has been down hill and practically none existent for probably a year now, only really happens when he wakes up at about three in the morning coming into me and doesn't even know it's happening! But obviously wakes up and has sex with me.. must dream about it a lot?! Anyway.. it's getting me down now because it's not just sex.. kissing, I actually struggle to get a kiss! Can't remember the last time we had a good song! (I'm English so sorry if some of my words don't make sense!) fore play... I will ask if he wants a blowjob to get him in the mood, I get turned down! But he loves them when he's actually turned on!! He never goes down on me.. again, he used to, now? None existent! Fingering? He'll only touch my clit and hardly ever goes inside! I mean, when I'm turned on.. I'll touch his dick and I'll just get 'nooo' or 'no don't I need a wee' it's getting frustrating because there's just hardly no intimacy at all ☹️ is it because we've been together so long?! I know he's not doing anything with anyone else because I've been off work most of this year and if he's not at work, he's with me.. plus I know he'd never cheat (well I hope!) he loves me so much and I love him so much too! We have a great relationship! Hardly and arguments and we get on so well! Girls what can I do?! 😩
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