Is he emotionally cheating? Help!?

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Ok so I am super paranoid that my boyfriend is emotionally cheating on me with another girl. 
So a bit of background, I have been abroad studying for the last four months, eight months if you count before Christmas. So while I have been away my bf has been snapchatting a mutual friend of ours. At first I just thought it was some harmless chatting now and again, he has met up with her a few times. I know my bf is not cheating on me for reals. I am just worried that he is too emotionally invested. 
I came home recently from abroad and to be honest he doesn't seem too excited, I feel like I am being super clingy. Yesterday he got a snap off of her and didn't open it until I was out of the room and today he got two snaps from her and I only just so happened to catch a glimpse of one where she was dressed up and took a full length pic with a load of writing and then another after that that he quickly skipped because he realised I was there. So to be honest I am kind of worried. 
I brought it up with him a few months ago and he assured me that they only just talk about random shit but I can't help feeling it's something more after the way he has been acting since I have been back. 
I don't really want to bring it up again because he will get annoyed and I want to ask someone else but I am afraid either one of them will find out. 
Can anyone give me some advice please??

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If she is a mutual friend of yours, then how about you ask HER about it and not him since he doesn't seem willing to talk.

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The fact that you are scared to question him something that he is clearly being sketchy about is ridiculous. If you feel bothered by something he should be able to respect fully give you the answer . and also he should make you feel secure again. & opening her snaps when you're not in the room is not okay.She doesn't need to be sending your man pictures anyways, that's how I see it. Its obvious he's hiding something and as long as he's hiding it from you. She will too. Otherwise if she was "uncomfortable" that they were being too friendly - knowing he's in a serious relationship she would've told you. But now a days it doesn't matter women are just as dirty as men. I think you should sit down and have a serious conversation. Honestly the only way cuz I doubt he'll give you the phone. I wish the best of luck and I hope he can admit if he is doing anything wrong like a man.

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Emotionally cheating can be just as hurtful as him sleeping with someone else. And often times it starts there. I know as my husband had an affair that started off exactly as you're describing. I can tell you from experience that when I confronted him about it, it only pushed him closer to the other woman.

The issue is, we shouldn't be put in a position where we feel like we're walking on eggshells when talking to them and we also shouldn't have to just sit back and watch it happen. I don't know what kind of relationship you guys have but I would think about how much the relationship meant to me. That's where the decision making starts.

If you see a future with this guy, he needs a wake up call on what he's entering into. I had no issue with the woman my husband was talking to at first, I thought she was a harmless friend. But he started going into the bathroom to text and wouldn't open texts in front of me. Getting emotionally attached happens gradually and they might not even notice it's happening. Then they lose interest in your relationship.

I know you want to believe him, I thought I could completely trust my husband, but I was so wrong. You have to talk to him. Even if the risk is you annoy him or push him away. You shouldn't be left wondering what he's doing behind your back. And you do not want to feel like you're competing. Not talking is only going to delay things. You need to find out what your relationship means to him and check that you're on the same page.

Something isn't right in your situation, lady. You need to take care of yourself and your happiness. Talk to him. Communication is key. It's a cliche but it's a cliche for a reason. Good luck to you, I'll be hoping everything works out! (=

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Yeah he's acting sketchy af. I wouldn't be cool with it and you really shouldn't be.

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That’s a hard one.. I wouldn’t trust it. I would personally look at the snaps myself lol but I’m crazy and I’ve caught my dude doing shit early in the relationship. Honestly guys get bored and like to talk to other females sometimes. Not saying it’s a good thing but I don’t think he wants to be with them, he wants you. He just wants to be entertained by others online. It happens with guys all the time. Talk to him about it again if it’s bothering you and tell him to be honest and also tell him you already know what’s going on that way he has to tell you the truth

Is he emotionally cheating? Help!?

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