am I "too tight"?

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Is it possible to be "too tight" to have sex? I've tried numerous times and it's just never worked. Starting to get quite upset about it.

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I had that issue for sure! I also had vaginismus and I'm not sure how much that played into it. But you definitely need to be physically ready and turned on! So foreplay and lube should help

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If you dont prep enough you wont stretch making it seem too tight try a lot of foreplay and maybe lube and try to relax and not stress over being too tight

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No, you're not "too tight". Tight/loose are myths, at least the way people use them. If you're tight, you're not aroused enough.  The vagina is a muscle. This article can probably explain it better than I can.

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I was told that I was really tight last time I tried doing anything down there (I'm a virgin but we were trying anal). Just relax, really relax, use lube, get yourself crazy turned on, and it'll all work.

am I "too tight"?

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