Stood Up or What?

Question

So been talking to this guy for a few weeks, been planning on going out for like a week and a half. His texts for the last two days have been all, I like you a lot and I can't wait to meet you and I'm so excited...so today comes aaaaand nothing..nada...not a single word. He was going to plan something and give me the details this morning for dinner tonight..so obviously that didn't happen...and I'm just stuck as to where to go from here. 
On one hand, I really really like him and I'm concerned that something happened.
On the other, I'm so damn tired of being ghosted or stood up or whatever the heck this is. 
I texted him about 5pm asking him what was up...and que crickets. 
So do I message him again? Do I leave it be? What would I even say? I'm normally better at this shit but I think I caught the feels on this one. Any advice would be helpful...

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Leave it be. I had this happen three times in the past year. It's infuriating, but you won't get any explanation that will make sense to you. So go out and do something that makes you happy!

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People pull that 'ghosting' or 'Crumbs' shit and it make me so pissed off. Ignore him and start talking to other people. He's going to get the hint that you're not to just be played with. He will either give up or actually try. But still be cautious. Dont make it seem like you wait for his messages or like you constantly want to talk to him and need him. They pull that shit to make themselves feel important and desired.

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I would just leave it be. Let him come to you. There was a time I was stood up on my birthday and I didn't text him. A few days late he's "drunk" and hitting me up with how much he likes me and blah blah blah

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I would leave it be and if he doesn't respond in a day or 2 then drop him and move on to the next thing if he responds later then great if not it's not like you guys were dating anyway right?

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Just leave it be. Don't say anything. Make him feel lame for just disappearing because they all come back. See if he actually had a valid excuse after but don't chase him.

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