bf obsessed with his family ??

Question

This may be me being melodramatic but my boyfriend ALWAYS wants to do stuff with his brother !!
Like if we've planned to out to dinner then his brother asks us to dinner, we will end up going out with them instead of Just us two!!
For example, tonight we were supposed to being going out just us two and I'm sitting getting all dolled up and he just texted me saying we are going out with his brother and his pal instead ? Like am I being crazy? but this is just so annoying!! Help me out ladies 😢
Update:
I've told him before how I feel about spending time alone as well as with his family considering, he along with his family are more than 4 years + older than me making me feel so out of place :(

Answer

The best thing would be to sit down and calmly talk about it. Tell him you respect his brother and their relationship, but you would also like some alone time with him (and ONLY him) every now and then. Communication is key!

Answer

I think you should talk to him. Tell him although you don't mind hanging out with his brother and his pal. You'd like for you guys to do stuff alone also. It may seem a like annoying but it's nice that he wants you to hang out with his family as well. Just talk to him about it. You're not being crazy.

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Just express how important also time is to you and he will probably understand. You aren't crazy. Props to you for being able to recognize when your needs are not being met.

bf obsessed with his family ??

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