Grandparent trouble 😓

Hi ladies,

Looking for some feedback/advice.

I'll start by saying that I love my parents very much.

My little one is their first grandchild so they're over the moon with excitement.

I have begun to limit the time I spend with them though because each time we visit

(my lo, and my husband) I leave upset.

They constantly hover over me and question everything that I do. They make me feel as though I don't know what I'm doing as a parent or that I am doing the wrong thing. When I've expressed that I feel this way they say "No you don't." They are constantly denying my feelings. Or they flat out ignore me - they will pretend I've said nothing and change the subject.

I don't want to keep my lo from seeing them and I've suggested they come by and visit her instead of us going to their place buy the same things seem to happen and it makes me very upset. It's gotten to the point that I feel very anxious and ill when they come around.

I know they don't mean to hurt me and that they most likely feel as though they are doing the right thing but how that I've expressed myself and they've refused to acknowledge my feelings I am at a loss for what to do.

😓