My story.. but read my point. 😀

So ever since I got pregnant with my son, my mother in law has just been so overbearing. She wanted to rub my belly against my wishes (I don't like being touched), she kept dropping hints about being in the DR, and I just didn't know her on that level. Fast fwd to the birth. We told everyone, not just her, to give us space after baby was born for us to have time with our new baby and to also call before visiting. She didn't want have that. And he wasn't allowed at her house because they used to smoke like trains. Not kidding. Which also made her mad. She said we had to give him germs at 8 weeks old. Everything she done was against our wishes. Like she had a point to prove, which just kept pissing us off. He was our child and we was keeping his best interest in mind (washing hands, smoke free home, no kissing, etc) she thought it was all bs rules. Well, we ended up having to live with her for like a year. She wanted to take over, she would literally watch me change a diaper and if she seen just the smallest little red spot she would ask "are you gonna put something on that" I couldn't do anything right according to her. She wanted to load him up with candy and even gave him coffee. And yes, I vacuumed, cleaned the dishes, picked up the whole kitchen, even dusted and cleaned the ceiling fans. So I did house work too. But it was never good enough for her. Because she had two she did it wit. Even my husband said it wasn't enough for her. When I had my job, I even came home on lunch to help with him and she acted like that pissed her off. She stressed me and my husband out. To the point I got anxiety and my stress caused me to need heart medicine. Never had ONE problem until I moved in her house. We finally got our own place 2 1/2 months ago. I got pregnant (8 weeks😀) and my Dr said to stop taking my heart medicine. Y'all, this is day 3 without my medicine. I didn't need it. but living with a stressful person. Made me have to take it so my heart would work correctly. My husband told me that's exactly why I had problems. Was his own mother stressed me out that bad. I mean, she got pissed and stormed off because I told her not to kiss my kids lips (especially right after smoking a dam cigarette)

Moral of my story.. if you're stressing.. please stop. Things will work out. Don't give yourself a heart problem like I did. Cause trust me, it sucks. In laws can suck, but you don't have to live with them forever. And when you're out, things and they won't seem so bad. But you have to deal with them, just keep your foot down about whatever it is you feel strongly about, and don't stress and remove yourself from the situation if you have too 😀 me and my MIL just view things differently, just she pushed and pushed until she was overbearing. That's why I kinda hate her now. but I love her. it's weird lol