ladies Helpn💕

Hey Ladies!!! I know this maybe a silly question but advice will be great!
1. Say you are going to visit bae! What would you wear and do before going to see him! ( tips)
2. How have you moved from friend to girlfriend? What did you do / stop etc
3. If your sex drive seems low how do you rebuild it ? Food ? Exercise? Etc 
4. Has anyone EVER experienced .. this .. you're having sex.. its all great .. you get the leg shaking orgasims .. but your mind is not connected to the feeling. Hope you understand.. you don't feel totally connected and your mind wonders!!!!
Thank you in advance 💕💕💕💕💕💕