need advice

So I gave birth 3 weeks ago and my hormones have been all over, also my mother Inlaw is here to help since we have no family where we live, I appreciate everything she does but she can get under my skin, anyways I'm just an emotional mess an I know this is totally normal thankfully I don't feel depressed. My issue here is my husband and have been having ups and downs, we get along most the time but everyone tells me what we're going through is normal, the day we came back  from the hospital he had a break down in front of my mom and his mom and he started getting loud and he just wasn't himself we ended up all crying, I kinda had a break down too. I'm sad my mom had to see that side of him, it made her pretty upset and now for the rest of my life I'm gonna be paranoid about what she will think of him. I'm just trying to work things out and be happy with him but lately I feel like I'm not attracted to him and often will compare him to other men of course not to his face, I know this is wrong but I'm just annoyed with certain things he does, he's working on his behavior though and I appreciate that. The thing is my husband is very caring and will do anything for you but he's too sensitive so he gets mad and frustrated easily. It's not healthy to be comparing him to other men but at the moment I'm just not fully happy and I wanna break. Anyone else feel this way?

Sorry for the long post.