Get married before or after having kids??

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Get married before having kids or Get married after having kids so they can be in the wedding ??

I want to have kids before getting married and when I told my sister in law, she said that I was crazy . She said "why would you want to watch your kids at your own wedding"

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I believe in marriage before kids 😝

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Personally I believe that children should have the blessing of being born into the bonds of a marriage, but that's just me!

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This is just my opinion and I don't mean it in a mean way at all. ❤❤❤❤❤

I believe that a bond should be created between mom and dad first. If you can't commit to one another in a small commitment first then you can't commit to a huge commitment like having children.

Small steps before giant leaps.

Create a home and then a family

It's your decision! Many blessings with whatever you decide.

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I would rather be married before having kids. Due to not having the money for a big wedding me and my husband got married and honeymoon in Jamaica just the two of us then had a small reception with our loved ones when we got back. Because of that we said that one day we want to renew our vows infront of everyone on our 10 year anniversary and if we have the money to do that then it's kind of like our kids can be part of our big day too

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I got pregnant shortly after I was engaged. We eloped when I was mine months pregnant. 😂 we will have a wedding someday though, and my daughter gets to be the flower girl. I think there are pros and cons to each situation. My sister wanted to have her wedding and then have babies. As I sit here and watch her wedding plan I am sooooooo happy I didn't go through that lol

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It's your decision! I wouldn't even look at it as babysitting, I see it as they get to spend your special day with you and be part of it.

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Before 💕i didn't want to end up like all these other women where their bf left them after having kids

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I now believe in marriage before kids but if it happens before than it happens before if you want one before then go ahead no judgement don't listen to anyone do what you want to do. Before I got married I was pregnant when I was 17 but I had a miscarriage then I got married at 21, a month later I got pregnant now I'm 22 and have a beautiful baby boy.

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I have an 11 year old son. I wasn't married to his dad. 
I'm now 5 months pregnant with my husband. 
It doesn't really matter either way. Marriage doesn't guarantee you'll be together forever. 
It's your life so you do whatever you believe is right.

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I agree with your sis in law. That's just me tho

Get married before or after having kids??

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