throwing your own baby shower

Luna
It's 2017 rules and traditions get broken and I'm fully throwing my own baby shower with almost little to no help. I've always been super crafty and loved the idea that I could design my baby shower how ever I want and get to keep myself busy doing projects when I'm feeling anxious. 🤗 have any of you ladies done this before or are currently doing it? 
**ive already been told by so many people that I shouldn't be throwing my own baby shower and it's honestly annoying!!