My husband and I lost our first baby at 8 weeks, one week ago. He has thrown himself into his work. Literally been working day and night since I miscarried. He works from home so he is here but he has just refused to talk about his feelings and he comforts me when I'm crying/upset etc but he won't ever come to me to ask how I am or how I'm feeling because I think he doesn't want to deal with this or his own feelings. I know he's hurting and I've tried to be understanding of him needing to throw himself into work and grieve in his own way but I'm left feeling so alone and upset. Like I'm the only one who lost a baby. We just a huge fight right before my ultrasound to make sure everything came out and I wanted to go to it together and as a team but I feel alone and I'm so upset. I'm wondering how other peoples partners reacted to the miscarriage and if anyone has any idea of how to get him to open up and grieve with me.