Whenever I talk to my manager about leave, she says she's going to do 2 months and a week that starts on my due date and ends two months later, the main problem is that she is basically saying that if he doesn't show up during his due date week, I need to talk to my midwife and tell her that we need to get him out. I do not want to rush him. I just want him to come when he wants to. But I don't know how to politely word that to her without saying it rudely.