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I love my husband but....

Marie • Sat, May 27 • IVF # 1 👰🏻🤵🏼Expecting Twins Nov ‘18

I love my DH with all my heart, but I don't talk to him about how sad I am that I'm not pregnant yet... I used to think it was me & I freely talked about my concerns & sadness about ttc.. but after testing we found out it was male infertility... & IVF is our only way. I'm strong for him, supportive, & love him more now, but how can I talk about how sad it makes me that we're not pregnant, w/out making him feel at fault?? I can't.. so I keep it to myself because it's not his fault; he wants a baby just as bad as I & I dont blame him for this, but I can't tell him my fears w/out breaking his heart.

So I'm finding support in all of your lovely ladies posts, the strength I see in them, the hope you all have, & the will to keep trying. Thank you ❤️🍼

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Posted at Sat, May 27 2017

You're a wonderful wife, and I can tell you love your husband. If IVF is the only way, then try to figure out your finances and just go for it ♥️ you can do this and I hope you both get blessed with a little baby sooner than later.

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Marie • May 27, 2017

Thank you, I knew babies were expensive I just didn't expect it to start before we even got pregnant! 🙈

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