I am currently miscarrying (I would have been 5 weeks). The due date would have been the end of Jan which would have been perfect for our lives. I think I'm actually mourning the loss of the perfect timing of this pregnancy just as much as the pregnancy itself. Here's the deal- I own a dance studio and our competition season starts in March and goes through May and then we have recital the first weekend in June. My weekends are booked those entire months with travel to various competitions. If I hadn't conceived I was facing the decision to keep trying even though it would give me a due date during that time or to take a few months off to avoid a due date then. I was so excited that I didn't have to make that decision and now I'm faced with it again. I've heard that a lot of people get pregnant right after a miscarriage and I don't want to miss out on that opportunity by not trying. Any advice from those who took time off while TTC? Was it worth it to try to time a due date or did you regret it?