My best friend moved to Wisconsin last winter well her mom is planning a trip up there to see her I can't go because she wants to go during weekdays and I have to work also my husband doesn't want me to go up there alone he feels she is a bad influence on me now she is mad because I can't go she said it's annoying that I'm ok with her missing work to come down here but I can't miss work to go up there she works salary and gets paid if she's there or not I work minimum wage and we are barely surviving meanwhile she shops high end and has only a few bills she need to come back down to earth and realize in life we can't just do whatever we want whenever we want