My SO said I'm obsessed with this app 😒

So he has a child already from a previous relationship, this is my first child and I went through a lot at the beginning of my pregnancy thank god I made it through (long story) and I'm so happy to finally be having a child . I use this app a lot because it's good to connect with people who may be going through a similar situation AND I learn so much. I know you can never really be ready and prepared for a kid but I like to take in as much information as I can and I love hearing about what other people have been through. DO YOU BELIEVE he had the nerve to tell me "you're obsessed with this app" so I kindly told him I'm not obsessed with the app I'm obsessed with my child yes. And he's like oh I guess since I had a kid already I see it a different way...it's not good to be obsessed with your kid... this guy literally argued me down and told me I need to focus on other things, I'm obsessed with my baby and I'm always on this app and that's all I do! I'm offended because of course I'm gonna be excited and happy!! This is my baby that I've been wanting for so long.. he's very supportive and everything else but by him saying that he sounded like an asshole... I do use the app quite often but he makes it seem like I eat sleep and breathe this app, sorry if I'm constantly taking in information and things like that but I honestly don't believe that I'm ALWAYS on the app. Now I'm upset and I'm not speaking to him because he's making me feel like I care too much about getting ready for my baby and I don't like that... am I overreacting? Should I get over it? How would you feel? The other day I asked him to sit with me and do the baby registry and he bitch and moaned about how I'm only 6 months we don't have to do it now and I felt upset and then he later on came and apologized and we did the registry but it's just like really? 🙄
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El

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I would be pissed when he mentioned "Oh cuz I already have a kid" I don't blame you!!! I never wanted to date men with children and my SO didn't tell me he had a now 13 yr old he had at 15 until we had been living together for 4 months. I'm over it now because the kid lives in another country but it certainly affected my trust with him. Fast Forward 3 yrs and we are having a little family of our own ❤

Ju

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Ill be a FTM 11/17... This is the only type of social media I have and my husband is completely cool with the fact I'm on here 24/7. It's definitely helped get me thru this pregnancy so far, your man should be understanding.

Ro

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I'm 100% obsessed, first thing I go to when I wake up and last thing I go to before bed with a hundred times in between.